Giving Thanks

It seems to me every year the stores start getting ready for the Christmas rush earlier and earlier. First the sales got earlier... 6 am, then 5 am, then 4... and suddenly Black Friday got a kickoff on Thanksgiving Day. We've heard the "Christmas in July" slogan for a lot of years, but I think retailers are secretly hoping it will catch on. I mean, is it just me, or are the stores having really big sales before Black Friday this year, trying to jump start everyone into beginning the spending frenzy? Our armed forces couldn't even get their annual day of recognition without a flurry of Veteran's Day sales turning it into a goldmine for retailers.

All this to say I'm as guilty as anyone of getting caught up in the focus of the Christmas holidays and not giving Thanksgiving its proper due. (Although with all the snow and frigid temperatures we've had lately, it's not surprising!) Certainly I'll be celebrating with my family this Thursday, but I've been so focused on promoting the upcoming Christmas shows the band has scheduled that I sorta swung right into the Christmas hubbub and never took the time to celebrate this season with you all. So I'm hoping to rectify that in some small way by sharing the following perspective I've recently acquired. Very recently. Like... 15 minutes ago recently.

Giving Thanks. That's supposed to be the focus of Thanksgiving, right? I mean, the whole stuff-yourself-on-turkey-til-you-can't-move phenomenon is our way of celebrating the bounty we have to be thankful for. Or maybe donating time or money to organizations that feed the poor and homeless expresses our thanks for the abundance we have.

But do we take the time to really be thankful for everything in our lives? No, that wasn't a typo. I did say everything.

Sometimes (ok, a lot of times!) I get tied up in knots over the unpleasant things in life and forget how many blessings I truly have. This last year was especially challenging with the passing of Brother Ray - a man I loved and respected very much. So as I sat here in the early morning contemplating my schedule of this week's Thanksgiving Day preparations, I got that familiar ache in my heart when I looked back over the past year and realized what we've all lost. But wait, my story here has a happy ending!

In that moment of sadness, I suddenly realized that I can "give thanks in all things"! What needed to change was not my circumstances, but my perspective. Instead of trying to give thanks for what I lost when Ray left us, I can give thanks for what I gained. It suddenly occurred to me that I wouldn't trade a moment of the joy of knowing Ray (and John, Vicky, and the rest of the Delaney clan) in order to avoid the sadness the empty spot his leaving has caused. So instead, I will give thanks with a grateful heart that I was blessed to be one of the people whose life was forever altered by knowing this truly remarkable man. My desire is that I will be able to apply this lesson I've learned to other events in my life, and learn to live my life in an attitude of gratitude.

I hope that I haven't bored you with my rambling, and that you too will find many things to be grateful for this holiday season. Blessings on you all!

Fran Piccininni
aka "Nick's Mom"

Christmas Shows!

As I mentioned in the previous post, we've been working on expanding our Christmas season shows. In the past we have had one or two performances during the holidays. While the band enjoys these tremendously, it's a lot of work putting togther all these new arrangements of Christmas music. So this year we decided to increase the number of shows they'd play in order to spread the cheer a little farther, and make the best of their hard work and talent.

I'm pleased to announce, we met our goal of 4 scheduled concerts this year! You can check the calendar to find out where they will be playing. It's a great concert - they mix some different arrangements of standard Christmas songs, as well as some lesser known pieces I'm sure you'll enjoy.

Hope to see some of you out and about! :)

Moving Forward with Wonderful Memories

You might notice this blog wasn't updated for quite a while. 2013-2014 was a tough time for Delaney Brothers Bluegrass. After a nearly year long struggle with cancer, Brother Ray left his earthly trials behind. Sometimes I imagine him sitting on the porch of his mansion, picking away with Mr. Bill Monroe...

Ray's greatest desire was for the band to remain strong and carry on the legacy he and John began way back in 1981 when Delaney Brothers Bluegrass was formed. Ray was the consummate professional, and always took his role in the bluegrass community seriously. Ever the gentleman, he always had a kind word for those he met, and always sought to encourage others, even through his illness. He will be missed not just because of his beautiful voice or talent on the guitar, but because he touched the lives of everyone he met. He left us all an example that still leaves me in awe.

So... moving forward. The last year and a half the band has had a very light schedule, but the band is once more on the move booking concerts and eager to spread a little of that bluegrass sunshine Ray left behind. We'll be kicking off the new season this December - wait, what? The bluegrass season doesn't start until Spring, right?

Wrong! The guys are really excited to be performing a few Christmas shows this December! It all started a few years ago when they were asked to play a Christmas show at the Borodino Grange Hall in Spafford, NY. It was a great success, and became an annual tradition. Each year the band has added more Christmas songs to their repertoire, and this year they are taking the show on the road, so to speak. Currently there are three shows scheduled (the first is actually November 30th at Homer Center for the Arts), and another one in the works. We tried to spread them out geographically so more people can hear the joyful sounds of the season bluegrass-style!

The band is always looking for new places to share their love of music, and meet new friends that share that same love. If you know of any venues that would be interested in the band, let us know. Or pass along our website to the promoters - delaneybrothers.com. All our contact information and lots of good stuff is on there. The band plays for all kinds of events, from festivals to churches, and even private parties and weddings! Any excuse to pick and sing, don'tcha know... :)

Hope you all enjoy the beauty of fall, and we hope to see you all soon!

Holiday Dinner Show!

So this Saturday, December 1st, is the band's first holiday dinner show.  Pretty exciting stuff!  For being our first year we sold a respectable amount of tickets, and everything seems to be coming together nicely!  It promises to be a fun evening.  I was just at Dibbles Inn today paying for the balance due and I got to see the way they decorated the room we'll be in.  It looks great!  I can't wait to see the final "look" with the fireplace lit...

Meanwhile, "The Boys" have been busy working up some Christmas music to sprinkle into the set lists!  And there is even a dance floor, which prompted me to "suggest" they plan to do a couple waltzes during the evening so our guests can stretch their legs and take a spin around the floor.

If you didn't get tickets to this year's show, don't despair.  I have a sneaking suspicion we'll be doing this again next year.  :)

Into the 21st Century :)

Slowly we are emerging from the Dark Ages and employing modern technology to help us reach out to our amazing fans and others in the music community.  Times, they are a-changing...  As brother Ray is fond of proudly announcing at concerts, we are on Spacebook and Myface, lol.  Recently we opened a Twitter account (@DelaneyBrothers) and now here we are on Blogger!  (I wonder what Ray will christen them....)

We are excited about the upcoming events we have scheduled for 2013.  But first, we have two holiday shows scheduled for December that we're working up new music for.  For the first time, we're doing a holiday dinner show.  It promises to be an amazing evening at the newly remodeled Dibble's Inn on Rte. 5 in Vernon on December 1st.  We had a good response for reservations for our first year doing this.  Hopefully we can make it an annual event to kick off the holiday season and get everyone "in the mood"!

Then on December 15th we will be at the Borodino Town Grange for the annual holiday show there.  It's a great little venue with a lot of character and great acoustics!  So if you didn't get in on the dinner show reservations, you can still catch the band playing some special selections to make your holidays merry and bright.  :)

In the meantime, we all hope you have a safe and wonderful Thanksgiving celebration next week.  Even with the difficult times many in our country are going through, we still have much to be thankful for.  In that vein, I'd like to close with this inspirational thought from Oprah Winfrey: "Be thankful for what you have; you'll end up having more.  If you concentrate on what you don't have, you will never ever have enough."   May we be ever mindful of the many blessings that surround us, and therein find an abundance of joy and peace.